kemocon:

kemocon:

Unfunny non-black gays: HAHAHAHA WIG! TEA SIS! IT BE LIKE THAT! DID I MENTION WIG? MY WIG IS SNATCHED #SHOOK #IM QUAKING

Seriously though sorry to be “that” black person but I’m really tired of white gays (hell any non-black) using aave every 10 seconds! It’s not funny we been saying this shit but I guess it’s only quirky to act like a sassy black person, not be one. Because that’s how most of y'all see us

(non-blacks are encouraged to reblog dont say anything though)

rohie:

being in love!! getting married!!! having chubby little babies!! decorating your home…!!!!

yourbigsisnissi:

rendzina:

over coffee with my mom this morning: “sometimes we hesitate to invite people into our life because we feel like our space isn’t good enough yet. things are a little messy, or our place settings don’t match, or our situation isn’t quite what we want it to be. don’t let that stop you. invite people in anyway.”

Unless your “mess” will cause you to traumatize abuse or mistreat other people

Then deal with that “mess” first

k.